The First Impression

Recently, I asked some friends, no matter how long they knew me for, what their first impressions of me were.

Overall, most people told me I seemed nice and sweet! I felt super happy when I heard this and it got me thinking about the emphasis of first impressions in today’s world.

First impressions are kinda scary! I feel like as we grow older, there’s a ton of pressure put on first impressions, whether we know it or not. Whether it’s a job interview, a date, or even just meeting new friends, people often rely on first impressions to decide if they like the person or not.

We’re often told to “be ourselves” but to also be a certain level of “marketable” to others at the same time. And let’s face it ... we’re all awkward humans. Sometimes we can help that, and other times we can’t!

I think what’s important to remember is that you’ll end up where you need to be! First impressions are important, but they’re not the end all be all of our existence! So what if you make the first impression you don’t necessarily think fits you?

Now I’m not saying go make a fool of yourself....but if anything, those who want to and are meant to be in your life will give you more than a first impression to show who you really are - so don’t sweat it!

Also: small side note….isn’t this little village adorable?! My mom and I went to this place a few days ago in one of my recent vlogs (linked below)!